Let’s talk about sex..ism, baby!

Successful, female chef.

It’s not dirty talk. It’s real talk coming up right now.

I spent my three or four years or however long it was in kitchens being called things like darling, love, dear, babe and even sugar tits.

Being called naggy or bossy if I had an opinion on something. Working doubly hard for half the amount of respect..

I’m not a raging feminist I don’t understand why feminists need men to burn for what they’ve done, that’s kinda crazy. I just want people to be seen as equal, I don’t think it’s fair that because women are seen as more likely to have family or develop other distractions that get in the way of work. But it’s true.. I support my family, as you all may know and i would opt to do fewer, longer days to accommodate for that. I would work 3/4 14 hour days – that’s up to 59 hours! In three days! But I was looked at as a part timer, a little girl who couldn’t hack doing “real chef hours”

When I first started training, I met and fell for a chef in a higher position than me. If I had known that it is acceptable for people to make the ludicrous comments they made about me in that time.. I would never have done it! I was a younger less experienced chef, dating an more experience higher positioned chef. I was also being recognised for my abilities at the same time. Unconnected. No one else saw it that way.. “extra practise at home? Did (no name) Teach you how to handle meat” “we all know what you did for that mark”

Guess who was called a slut. Not him. Me. I was 20..and it knocked my confidence, it made me doubt myself and my ability as a chef, it haltered my progression!

I look around my profession and there is a very small amount of women. That’s no shock.. I see female head chefs and I wonder how much they had to sacrifice to get there… How much extra they gave, how hard they had to work to get to where they are now! I have known women who have had to move all around the country, working harder to get more information to be taught things that people don’t want to teach anymore. (but that’s a point for another day)

The first time I moved up in a kitchen, some one made a joke about who I had given a blowjob to, to get this step up.

Now don’t get me wrong, not all male chefs are like that.. Some of the men I have worked with have been inspirational. Some have them have helped me grow and learn and progress without prejudice.

I guess the moral of this story is to be more like them. Be a good guy! If your in a kitchen with a woman, be the guy who jokes with her not at her expense.

If a woman’s place is in the kitchen.. Than let us be in the kitchen!!

Hey if you have any kitchen related stories, get in touch! I’d love to hear them!

 Jade 
Blogger, Lover of Food.

A Shucking Good Time!

Last weekend I spent some time down in Falmouth watching chef demo’s and tasting fantastic street food! I also did some sample tasting and spoke to some of the local suppliers who had gathered to the tent situated in event square.

Demo’s included Arty William’s from The cove and Michelin star chef Chris Eden from Driftwood.

Granted.. I was only there on the Sunday (damn responsibilities) but I had a great time. St Michael’s Hotel and Spa were definitely the starts of the show, with there Oyster Bar, Champagne Bar and Fresh Seafood Kitchen in the corner of the main marquee area.

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There was one down side for me though.. I hate Oysters!

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Oysters.. ew. – But beautifully prepared and served by the St Michael’s Staff.

So lunch for me was a wild Cornish venison tartiflette – potato, venison, and cheese.  (find out more about the Cornish Venison Co. and follow them on twitter here) Honestly what more could you need!

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Venison Tartiflette and Apple Slayer cider. YUM.

Music was provided by Suzi Mac (wow what a voice!) and fun was had by all!!

Another great year for the  Falmouth Oyster Festival – Check them out for next year!

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Taste Of The West Awards

Its that time of the year again. Best of the west –  a time when hundreds of southwest based companies compete to receive gold, silver and highly commended. 100 hundred judges and voters filtered their way through 1000’s of products. Below are the winners. a couple of personal favorites to note are Cornish Duck Co. LTD Cornwall – I visited their farm when i was part of Fifteen Cornwall and they really do love and care for their animals. They look after every process from looking after eggs, to rearing the ducks, to on site slaughter and processing. – Their ethos is great and their quality shows in the products.

Another noted winner was the Cornish Edible Insects company – I saw these guys at the Cornwall food and Drink Festival in Truro last year (here’s a link– check it out, a foodie must in Cornwall) Such a brave and great set of products from the brain of Fred McVittie! I tried meal worms for the first time! surprisingly lovely.

Congratulations to all the winners and good luck to everyone for next year!

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CHAMPION BACON Roam & Relish Organic Honey Smoked Streaky Bacon, Eversfield Organic, Devon

CHAMPION BEER Kingsdown, Arkell’s Brewery, Wiltshire

CHAMPION BURGERS, FAGGOTS & MEATBALLS Gluten Free Cornish Duck Burger, Cornish Duck Co. Ltd, Cornwall

CHAMPION CHEESE Sharpham Cremet, Sharpham Partnership, Devon

CHAMPION CHOCOLATE Champagne Truffle, Lick the Spoon, Wiltshire

CHAMPION CIDER Red Hen, Worley’s Cider, Somerset

CHAMPION CONFECTIONERY Salted Maple & Pecan Fudge, Roly’s Fudge, Devon

CHAMPION CURED MEAT Smoked Mutton Capreolus, Fine Foods, Dorset

CHAMPION DAIRY PRODUCT Happy Butter Turmeric Ghee ‘Golden Ghee’, Happy Butter, Devon

CHAMPION DESSERT Devon Bakewell Tart, Just Like Mumma’s Ltd, Devon

CHAMPION FISH IOS ‘Tegen Mor’ Crab Cakes, Tanglewood Kitchen Company, Isles of Scilly

CHAMPION ICE CREAM Mango Yogurt Gelato, Taste of Sidmouth Ltd, Devon

CHAMPION MEAT & POULTRY Organic Rib Eye Steak, Coombe Farm Organic, Somerset

CHAMPION NON-ALCOHOLIC COLD DRINK Rhubarb & Apple Cordial, Cornish Country Cordials, Cornwall

CHAMPION NON-ALCOHOLIC HOT DRINK Chaider’ (Chai-Spiced Apple Juice), Herby4, Somerset

CHAMPION READY MEALS, SOUPS & LIGHT EATS Classic Chicken Curry Bini, Fine Foods Ltd, Somerset

CHAMPION SAUCES & ACCOMPANIMENTS Pickled Lemon Spread, Yossi Foods Ltd, Bristol

CHAMPION SAUSAGE Traditional Pork Sausages, Sausage Shed, Somerset

CHAMPION SAVOURY BAKERY Chicken & Mushroom Sausage Roll, Little Jack Horner’s Ltd, Somerset

CHAMPION SAVOURY PRESERVE Caramelised Fig Chutney, Hillside Foods, Devon

CHAMPION SWEET BAKERY Lemon Drizzle Cake, Angel Cake Company, Dorset

CHAMPION SWEET PRESERVE Blaisdon Red Plum Jam, Artisan Kitchen, Gloucestershire

CHAMPION WINES, SPIRITS & LIQUEURS Sharpham Barrel Fermented 2014, Sharpham Partnership, Devon

BEST SOUTH WEST BUTCHER Greendale Butchers, Exeter

BEST SOUTH WEST FARM SHOP Greendale Farm Shop, Exeter

BEST SOUTH WEST FARMERS’ MARKET St Ives Farmers’ Market, Cornwall

BEST SOUTH WEST ONLINE RETAILER Riverford Organic Farmers Ltd, Devon

BEST SOUTH WEST SPECIALIST RETAILER/DELICATESSEN The Cheese Press, Torquay

BEST SOUTH WEST BED & BREAKFAST (joint winner) Dorset House, Lyme Regis

BEST SOUTH WEST BED & BREAKFAST (joint winner) Swan Hill House, Colyford, Devon

BEST SOUTH WEST CAFÉ/TEA ROOM Tea & Tittle Tattle, Budleigh Salterton

BEST SOUTH WEST CASUAL DINER Riverford Field Kitchen, Buckfastleigh

BEST SOUTH WEST DINING PUB Victoria Inn, Salcombe

BEST SOUTH WEST HOTEL Tudor Farmhouse Hotel, Clearwell, Royal Forest of Dean

BEST SOUTH WEST LOCAL FOOD TO GO Titley Green, Colaton Raleigh, Devon

BEST SOUTH WEST RESTAURANT Talland Bay Hotel, Porthallow, Cornwall

SOUTH WEST FOOD & DRINK INNOVATION AWARD Cornish Edible Insects, Cornwall

BEST NEWCOMER AWARD Happy Butter Turmeric Ghee ‘Golden Ghee’, Happy Butter

SOUTH WEST PRODUCER OF THE YEAR AWARD The Traditional Free Range Egg Company, Somerset

NO 1 PLACE TO GO 2017 Victoria Inn, Salcombe

SUPREME CHAMPION PRODUCT 2017 Sharpham Cremet, Sharpham Partnership, Devon